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April 28 Melbourne trip(brief and continued)Currently I really don't have enough time to wrtie down something about my Melbourne trip. Just give a description in brief:
Day 1: Arrive in Mel on 22th, April (Saturday). Take skybus shuttle to hotal, Causeway Inn which is located in city. At night, have hot pot with Liran
Day 2: Visit Gold Field and Great Ocean Road. Have dinner at an Italian restaurant by myself
Day 3: City tour, including Royal Botanic Garden, St. Pantric's Cathedral, St. Paul's Cathedral
Day 4: Enjoy veteran parade on Anzac Day in the morning, go to Philip Island and view penguin come onshore
Day 5: Return
Many first:
---Check-in self
---Take helicopter
---Watch penguin April 27 女人不要爱唠叨在家里我被定义"爱唠叨",外面很多人觉得我文静。事实呢？看对谁，对有些人我就喜欢什么都管，那是因为我关心你啊，对很多人，我是不爱管闲事，none of my business。所以能听到我唠叨，应该是荣幸，我的只言片语可能帮助你打开思路或是茅塞顿开，我可是是个Philosopher,不信你和我聊聊？
但是，目前一个big problem，很多女人把老公唠叨跑了。老公因为忍受不了老婆的过于关爱，只好到其他人那寻找安静，Gee!
怎么办？
实在想唠叨，就把唠叨的内容写出来而不要说出来
女人唠叨是一种天性，有其生理和心理的基础，但是也并不尽然，因为相当的女人终生都能保持安静的性格。那么，爱唠叨的女性怎么样改善自己这种状态呢？
首先，有意识地控制自己的语速和说话的总量，尽量不要重复说一件事，坚持一件事至多只说一次的原则。
其次，如果实在有唠叨冲动，把要唠叨的内容写出来而不要说出来。 以上几招是从MSN website学到的，不知是否好用？还是遵循老妈的一句话，”说话之前，琢磨半分钟。“ April 20 Never Try, Never Know人生有很多不如意,也会得到很多意外惊喜，人生就是一本书，一台戏。每个人都在自己编制的人生舞台上表演。为什么是自己编制的？本人始终认为---事在人为。机遇和幸运的确起着一定作用，但要看你是否准备好，所以还在于每个人的努力。不要等着天上掉馅饼，或抱怨自己为什么不如他人命好。人家为什么能找到好工作，因为人家能力比你强，为什么人家能力强，因为人家比你多付出了。中国学生特别是好学生，总喜欢告诉别人自己什么都没做，但考试成绩却比别人高，不知是为了证明自己聪明还是给自己考不好留个退路。所以不要诧异为什么他们得HD，其实人家努力了，不一定比你聪明多少。当然也得承认人的智商有些不同，学习效率也有些不同，但没有白来的东西。
我从不相信---Lucky,因为现在很多人劝我说，你找不到工作，不是你能力差，是你不够lucky。我要说，是我不行，可能是能力不行，可能是态度不行，可能是毅力不行。1、没有工作经验，不争的事实---我可以找个volunteer做啊！2、语言不如人家，嘴没人家利落---我可以找机会练啊！3、自己没有努力找---为什么浪费时间在无聊的八卦上！那天问了个在Telstra工作的朋友，人家一天可以发100份简历。你什么都没做或你根本没积极做，怎么可能有人会让你面试呢？
找到工作的人一定比你强很多吗？Not sure.But others have done what you have never done. Still saying,attitude determines action which influences result. Now the urgent thing I should do is action without hesitation.
Refresh, Sally! You don't have too much time to do what you want in your life. April 17 Dislike lonelyLong time no have a whole-day rest. After busy days arranged by working and study, I begin not to adapt for suah a free day, even feel a little bit lonely. Since I've been here, loneliness always accompanys with me, which gets me to miss home strongly. I crave for the time with my big family, parents, sister, niece. That kind of life is very happy. But here I gotta have my only family member-my hubby and our life just likes other couples-normal, common and without especial thing happens every single day. How can I handle it? Sometimes I let me think about dusty weather , heavy pressure work, or crowded street in Beijing. All thihgs that I've tried to do cannot change my mood at all, yet serious missing left.
What should I do? Return China or continue standing for this sort life here? ALthough I know the most important thing is enjoying now, pointless worry merely brings me lots of trouble. I'm still buried in endless torture by myself. Australian life makes me know what loneliness is and forces me to learn how to deal with it. That's real life. Life is not as beautiful as we imagine. Easter ShowThe first time to go to Easter Show in Sydney, the first time to take a ferry, today, I get much happiness.
9:50, gettting on the ferry from Circular Quay, along the Parramatta road to Olympic Park. The house longshore are so beautiful, probably each one is value at least $1 million. Some of them have a their own roads to their wharfs dirently. I can't help taking photos as our live's goal. Haha....
As to Easter Show, it is like as I thought. Kids like it much more. Milking, shearing, lady cannonball, freestyle, chpooing underhand.....Those shows are fresh and excited for me as well. We have planned to look at firework at night, but a little bit cold. Then we give up and return at 4:00 PM.
I should say it is unforgettable day. 门当户对从小就听说“门当户对”这个词，孩提时不懂那是什么，只知道不是吃的。大了，需要谈对象了，父母开始灌输这个词，当时只知道父母永远是对的，因为他们吃的盐比我吃的饭都多。成家了，身边的朋友相继结婚了，大家的共识---门当户对是正确的。
今天卖花时认识了蒋宁---北京老乡，同届毕业，8中的。她是个优秀的女孩，中财毕业，英国留学，DELL、HP、北电都干过，，目前就职于TELSTRA（澳洲最大的电讯公司），简直是聪明绝顶。这么出色的女孩还是和丈夫（大学同学）离婚了，第三者不说，好象家庭背景悬殊是很大原因。的确，三代培养一个贵族，一个是大学教授加出国公派人员家庭，一个是极普通的一般家庭，从小受到的教育和影响肯定不同，价值观、生活观更是大相径庭，如何能把两个人永远地捆在一起呢？难！
虽然婚姻需要爱情，需要激情，但很多condition，是不得不考虑的，它们决定你的婚姻是否长久。Otherwise,就想老外一样，高兴了就在一起，不高兴了，好和好散，见面亦是朋友。这是一种自由，但也是你周围环境决定的，中国人是传统的，你如果是中国人，就要相信---门当户对。 April 13 I'm grumpy这两天心情不是很好，其实自己脾气一直不怎么样，只有家人能够忍受，他们也是没办法。上一周，头疼折磨了好几天，天天止疼药，Panadol对我没作用，只有索米痛对我有帮助。于是开始吃中药，老妈从国内找来药方，在这里买药，猴儿贵。吃了五天，不说药多苦，每天我熬药就够烦的，真想老爹老妈次货着。
上周六和老公去机场认路，因为本人下周要独自去MElBOURNE耍，想先认认路，让老公送机。结果在Highway上车坏了，祸不单行！我们两一部手机都没带，三部手机全闲家休息。NAMA根本无法联系，最后没办法，我让老公冒着车报废的可能开到Sydneham，本想找帮我们做年检的中国人车行，但close，幸好对面的鬼老店开着，只好请他(Geff)帮忙。他告诉我们，water pump, timing belt and thermostat需要换，否则车就报废了。我们哪懂，but that is the only thing we can do.于是问他价钱，$550,天啊，真贵！问他如果只检查不换多少钱，他说不要钱。于是想先检查明天再说。于是本周前两天我一直和Geff保持联系，最后请他修了。今天把车取回。
另外，我在TAFE认识的一个同学ruihui要去Adelaide 了，因为她老公在拿找到不错的工作。心里很不是滋味，最近我好象总在和人分离，Nina,Fummiko,现在是 ruihui，......明天不知是谁。我真的是个感情动物，最见不得分离，可总要面对，好象我有点遗传老妈心重的性格。Gee!我把爹妈的缺点全接下了。
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